People always say, "Be yourself. Have confidence." What a bunch of useless garbage. Isn't it obvious that when are yourself and things don't work out, that you NEED to CHANGE? Because being "yourself" doesn't work. If it did you wouldn't have the problem. What we need to say is "Be your BEST SELF." If you don't like something about yourself, take steps to make change.
It is not like I can just go to the grocery store and pick up a pack of confidence on the shelf. Confidence comes from doing, from have competence in a particular area. It takes endless repetition and PATIENCE.
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